B.A., B.S., & Certified Sex Educator

My name is Stephanie, I am a first-generation Mexican-American cisgender woman, I'm bisexual, and I am a survivor. I teach sexual education through a reproductive and social justice lens in English and Spanish.


About Me

Sexual Education

There's no set, accessible path to be a sexual educator. I have a B.A. in Anthropology and a B.S. in Gender and Sexuality Studies from the University of California, Riverside. I am a certified sex educator through the organization, Everyone Deserves Sex Ed. Over the past six years, I've taken on the rolls of a lobbyist for the Planned Parenthood Action Fund of the Pacific Southwest, a Women’s Sexual Health and Empowerment Programmer, and produced The Vagina Monologues. I've been a peer health mentor, a dildo salesperson, a sexual health event organizer, and just generally working hard to cobble together a path as a sexual educator with the meager resources I had to make my community a better place. 



All presentations can be given in English, Spanish, and Spanglish. All presentation are LGBTQ+ inclusive and center the voices of women of color.

How to Be Cliterate

This workshop seeks to give practical skills regarding vaginal maintenance and provide sexual empowerment by casting the clitoris as a source of agency.

Reproductive Justice 101

The three core values of Reproductive Justice are (1) the right to have a child, (2), the right to not have a child, and (3) the right to parent a child or children in safe and healthy environments. We explore the history of this human rights framework by women of color.

Queer Reproductive Justice

Queer and LGBT+ folks are included but often forgotten when it comes to reproductive rights. This workshop looks at trans health care, adoption policies, and the effects of discrimination on 'non-traditional' families.

Slutty but Safe/ Suelta pero Segura

This presentation is for people that like having sex, but want to be proactive about their sexual and mental health. We're going to talk about developing your sexual vocabulary so you can get what you want, STI's, birth control, and privacy.

Masturbation as Healing

Masturbation has been a tool of healing for many survivors, including myself. This workshop teaches masturbatory tools like lube and toys within the context of trauma.

The Right to Not Have Children

The 3 tenants of Reproductive Justice are 1) The right to have a child 2) The right to not have children, and 3) The right to raise your children in a healthy environment. This workshops explores the tools available to not have children, from birth control, the morning after pill, and onto abortion.

Sex Ed 101

Sex Ed 101 is an introduction to LGBT sex ed and explores the concepts of consent, hygiene, anatomy, and masturbation. It is inclusive of all sexualities and gender.

Sex Ed 201

Sex Ed 202 explores sexual relationships, sexual negotiations, and serves as an introduction to sex toys. 

Sex Ed 301

Sex Ed 301 introduces kink, BDSM, and sexual subcultures as a follow up to Sex Ed 201.

Playing with Yourself: An Introduction to Sex Toys

We're going to go down the list of different erogenous zones and look at the best toys to make those spots feel good.

Butt Stuff

Everyone has an asshole, therefore anyone can have pleasurable anal sex. We're going to talk about hygiene, toys, and techniques for anal sex.


Who uses strap-ons? How do I pick the right one? What do cock rings have to with all of this? This workshop looks at tools, tips, and tricks to strap up.

Contact me for more information and logistics.